Holy cow, it has been a while.
I know I'm not very active on here anymore. That's not to say I'm not active /at all/. Just... definitely not like I used to be. Sort of like my art. I don't really do art anymore. That's not to say I don't do art /at all/. Just far less than I once did.
Once upon a time, dA was my livelihood. My home. I couldn't bare to be away. I used to chomp at the bit, eager to snag internet, anywhere, for any length of time, to answer messages and attempt to keep up on things. It was one of my priorities, you could say. And while I remember the feeling well and look back on that time fondly -- albeit with a bit of a chuckle -- things just aren't what they once were. Now I have internet access every day. And I hardly ever come back here. When I do, it's to update people, mostly so they can see how cute my kid is and know I'm still alive. It used to be a very real thing for me, worrying that I wouldn't be able to get to internet and people would think I was dead. I have known a few artists who have disappeared off the face of the earth with no warning and never returned. I never found out what happened to them. I suppose that's another reason why I come back.
So... what changed?
Well, everything.
I used to draw every day. Every. Day. I would come home from school and draw. I would draw on weekends and all summer and whenever I could. My art was my passion and the reason I improved as I did was because I literally did nothing but draw.
As of right now, I'm in an awkward position with my art. Because I know it's "good" but I also know I could be better, and I have goals. I actually want to begin working on my humans. I would love to develop my digital art skills as well. But that requires time and money that I don't have. Actually, I'll be buying a used tablet from a good friend here soon, so there's that, but that doesn't mean I can or will sit down and dedicate myself hours at a time anymore.
I am aware that there are plenty of artists who work and have a family and still crank out art. I simply choose not to overload myself. I choose my daughter over my art, and my sleep over art. Always. lol The sleep thing may sound funny to you, but hey, have a kid and get back to me on that. I have a very strict self-inflicted bedtime. 10:30 I'm getting ready for bed. Because I'm up bright and early every morning. And there is no "warming up" to mornings when you have a three year old. You open your eyes and it's GO GO GO. I must have a mean resting bitch face in the morning because Lizzy is always telling me to "make happy" when we wake up. Honey, Mommy isn't sad or angry. She needs coffee.
She is getting older, so... part of me thinks, yes, this is it, you can finally maybe start doing some art again! But let me be honest with you guys. I want another baby. Don't know when. Let's just say, I'm not pregnant currently, but we are not preventing and haven't been. So it's going to happen when it happens. Sonu and I both want it. I KNOW Lizzy does, because she keeps asking for a brother. But yeah, if I had to choose between doing my art again and "starting over" with another baby... I choose the baby. I always wanted a family and that's my choice.
I'm sure EVENTUALLY all my kids will go to school and then, assuming I'm not working, I could do more art, more often. But we'll see lol.
I'm rambling a lot lol. What has happened in my life in the year+ since I've updated properly?
We got our own place in June. It's actually tiny and pretty pricey but it's also in a really nice area and the location is great and we like it here, so. That's where we are, at least until June. We'll likely consider moving in a year or two. Eventually we would like to try to buy a house, but... baby steps.
This is my living room. I snapped this picture as proof that sometimes I have a floor. I more often than not have toys all over creation and had just spent a week with people tearing apart my living room with all my furniture in the middle of the room while they put in the new heating.
Sonu and I celebrated our one year wedding anniversary on August 6th.
Lizzy has requested to be a pirate for Halloween, so a pirate she gets. As excited as she is, though, she is already demanding we put up Christmas decorations.
I am looking forward to NaNoWriMo, though I won't be doing it in the traditional sense of "hey, write a book in a month". There is NO WAY a story as long and in-depth as mine will be completed that quickly lol. I'm actually anticipating three separate books from it, but for now am referring to them as Parts 1, 2 and 3. I can hope to finish "Part 1" or at least flesh out the entire flow and plot line for Parts 1 and 2. Part 3 is like... man. Idek. My characters will tell me what to do. They're bossy like that haha.
So... yeah. That's about it. In conclusion, I still do art, I'm actually working on a few commissions currently, but I don't update often here. I'm most active on IG, tbh. My art account is @ insaneromanart but it's about as active as this place lol. You'll see more over on @ insane_roman.